How To Get a Girl To Like You

Dating Scene

2009-01-29T19:56:00.000-08:00

Who else wants to know how to get women to like them virtually EVERY SINGLE time? It really amazes me how most men view the dating scene. They see it as some abyss that is full of the unknown. Let me tell you something, that view says a lot about the men who hold it. It says they are beta males. In other words, these are the sub-dominant species in our society. Whenever there is an alpha man in the proximity, these guys just roll over belly up.

Sounds pathetic, does it not? Well, it is. And this is EXACTLY what YOU are if you view the dating scene as something to be afraid of.

If you really want to get women to like you - you need own yourself and your surroundings. Instead of seeing dating as something scary and totally out of your control, see it as totally IN your control. Do you see how this change of mindset can affect your confidence levels with women?

The fact of the matter, no matter how "independent" the woman, is that women love to be whisked away into a man's world. Not just any man's world, but one who is dominant and able to take her on a wild, fun experience.

So, here is the big secret to success with women...

Stop being so afraid of everything! A couple thousand years ago and your butt would have been eaten by a sabre-toothed tiger if you showed this weak mindset for a split second!

Just take pride in yourself and exert control over your surroundings. Stop reacting, and start creating.

The women will follow. I promise you that.

Get a Girl To Like You

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First of all when you see a girl you like, be looking as good as you can. That doesn't mean that you're always dressed in your finest wear, it means that whatever you're wearing you're clean and you don't smell. If you don't have this basic right, then really you're never going to get past wondering how to get a girls number.

Your next move when you see a girl you like, don't wait too long to approach her. Waiting to build up courage only results in loss of courage! The longer you stand there psyching yourself up, the easier it is for negative thoughts to creep into your mind until your courage fails you or another guys gets in and asks for her number.

So, walk over with a warm smile on your face. Introduce yourself and ask her something really casual - if you've both just stepped out of a film, ask her what she thought of the film. If you're in a bar, ask her if you can get her a drink? You get the idea.

The sooner you have her laughing, the easier you will both feel - yes she's nervous too! Now your next move when wondering how to get a girls number, is to find the right moment to ask her. Ask her when you feel she's really relaxed, when she's just stopped laughing at something funny you've said and make sure she understands that you're not just out for what you can get and that you're really interested in her as a person.

Tips To Get Girls

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The first thing you need to realize is that the things women find attractive about men, are NOT the same things that men find attractive about women. Men, as you know, are very 'visual' beings - it's usually how a girl looks that sets our pulses racing (amongst other things...)

Women, on the other hand, find men attractive because of their personalities. How many surveys have you seen where women place 'sense of humour' as their number one priority when finding a mate? Quite a few I'd bet. A woman's ideal man is an alpha male that is confident and can take the lead, both in life and with her.

"So how do I get her to like me?" you say, "I'm no alpha male." Well, maybe not yet, but you can learn. Like all the good things in life worth learning, it will take effort and time on your part but, I guarantee, it will definitely be worth it.

Here's a tip if you want a girl to like you - Nonchalance.

You need to display non-attachment to whether the girl likes you or not. Great if she does like you, but if not, there are tons of other fish in the sea. Sure, you may not actually feel like that, but that is the 'act' you have got to convincingly sell. You must place a high value on yourself and never come from a position of neediness.

Make friends and hang out with as many women as you can to help eliminate neediness and also date as many women as you can, instead of restricting yourself to that "one special girl". It's a known fact that when a girl sees that other women are attracted to a guy then she will also feel attraction. In psychological circles this is known as the 'social proof' effect. It happens in both men and women, but it's much more powerful in the female of the species.

Of course, this is only one tip on how you get a girl to like you, but it is a very useful one to understand and will go a long way to helping you get that all important first date with the girl you want.

How To Get A Girl Interested

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Tip # 1 - Notice the finer details. In order to keep a girl interested in you, keep noticing the finer details. This could be anything from her likes or dislikes to the type of restaurants or movies she prefers. This would be very helpful in the next meeting since you could get her favorite chocolate or book a table at her favorite restaurant. Girls love it when guys notice, listen, and act, period. By acting on her likes, you will be able to prove that you care for her and this could literally keep her interested in you.

Tip # 2 - Dress to impress. Do not dress shabbily or even ordinarily if you want to create a lasting first impression. Dig through your closet and get your smartest clothes out. Add on a smart watch, chain or any other accessory that spells style boldly. Do not bling like a neon signboard but instead keep it classy. A fresh haircut and the right perfume or a sports deodorant should keep her sniffing for more.

Tip # 3 - If you do not have a hummer, use humor. While an entry in a hummer would have created a highly impressive impression, most people might not have the money to buy one. If that is your case then shift to using humor to get her laughing. This will keep her interest centered on you and you can use your sense of humor to quickly make her comfortable and proceed from there. Anyway, if wishes were horses, you could well be gifted with a hummer and tons of humor.

Getting The Girl

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Display your chivalrous side-

If you're in high school or college, make sure that she always finds you waiting round the corner for her. Carry her books while you walk along. And if you're working make it a point to pick her up after work. Take her out for an ice-cream or a surprise dinner before dropping her home. But also make sure to formally invite her out sometimes. Do complement her about her dress and the colors that suit her. You'll find her wearing the very colors you appreciated her in.

Play it safe-

Do not push things too hard or the opportunity will slip away. Playing it safe is the surer way to winning her. Get noticed by the girl you crave. Hang around within reach. Behave with propriety and respect. Be jovial and humorous and not boisterous or rowdy. Greet girls with respect, especially your dream girl. Never poke fun at other girls in her presence else she'll easily suspect it could be her some other time. This 'best behavior' attitude will win her heart and you'll soon find her taking an interest in you.

Display the gentleman in you-

Every girl would like to be leaning on the arm of a perfect gentleman whom she can trust. Just be sure not to be callous and deceive her. Be on your best behavior at all times. That will find her seeking your company more frequently. Show interest in the things she likes and also tell her about yourself. Discuss sensible topics, while not appearing boring and serious. Display a certain amount of flirtation while you pay sufficient attention too. She'll enjoy whatever time she spends with you.

Get Girlfriend

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Do not show a lot of interest-

Well this might sound funny but guys, this works a great deal. So plan it this way, show you do not have that much interest in her. She would act pricey if you simply follow her and show her that you need her badly. Usually girls are scared and irritated if you stalk them, ruining your chances of getting her to be interested in you. This will spark general interest and she will like you instantly.

Be confident of taking decisions-

Women do not prefer such guys who generally look for their consent on every matter. From the beginning you have to prove that you are capable of taking decisions and very strong willed. If they see that you are trying hard to make an impression then you will be written off. So it's important that you show your worth by displaying your inner strength. Surprise the woman and do not make it drab by waiting for her approval in silly matters.

Stay equally cool with her friends-

If you like her and want her to like you, make sure that she feels the urgency. So give equal attention to her friends, this will make her feel that she is just another girl over there. When you do this, her ego will be hurt and then she will try getting more attention from you. Yes, now you see how easily she will like you in seconds.

Get Girls

2009-01-23T09:15:00.000-08:00

We've all had that special woman in our lives. You know... the one with the sweet personality, the really nice hair and a perfect face. She dates the more "adept" guys... but how can you get her to like you?

While men are primarily attracted to women based on their looks, a woman finds a man attractive because of his personality. A ideal man is an alpha male who's confident in himself and not afraid to take the lead and get what he wants out of life.

Ironically, what this means then is that the best way for a girl to like you is when she feels like she has EARNED you.

That's because to get a girl to like you, you should come from a mindset of high value. Never come from a position of neediness.

So the best attitudes to have towards any one particular woman are:

1. Nonchalance.

2. Non-attachment to whether she likes you or not. (By that I mean, if she likes you that's awesome, but if not, there are tons of other chicks out there who are equally as great as she is.)

The bottom line is that a woman should never be a challenge for you. Instead you should be a challenge for her.

In addition to placing a high value on yourself, you can also eliminate neediness by building up your social network. Make friends with as many women as you can. (Women are easy to make friends with.)

Also date as many women as you can... don't restrict yourself only to dating "that one special girl."

You see, the last thing you ever want to have going through your mind when you're around that special woman is, "God, I MUST have this girl! She's irreplaceable!" Having an abundance of women in your life will solve that problem.

Also, whenever a woman sees that other chicks are attracted to a guy, she too feels attraction. Psychologically, this is known as the "social proof" phenomenon... and it's much more powerful in women than men.

Ever noticed how your female friends drool over the guy at the corner of the bar who's got four babes at his table? That's social proof in action.

By the way, it's fine to think a girl is beautiful and to feel something strong for her.

Here's the key though... you must always remind yourself that there are LOTS of other women out there who are just as wonderful as that girl you really like.

If you start thinking that any girl is one of a kind, then that gives her power over you, and, ironically, makes her lose attraction to you.

So, you're free to think that a woman's amazing. Just remember that lots of other girls are amazing too. That way you won't become needy.

So remember, place a high value on yourself, make her earn your attention, and hang out with as many women as possible... those are the three secrets for how to get a girl to like you.

Tips On How To Get Girls To Like You

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These tips on how to get girls to like you should help you know what to do to attract a girl.

1. NEVER UNDER ESTIMATE THE POWER OF A SENSE OF HUMOR

Women are real suckers for men that make them laugh. Laughter reduces tension and makes them feel more relaxed. It takes some of the stress out of getting to know someone. Even if it means telling little stories against yourself. By this I do not mean put yourself down, but tell a story when something you did backfired on you in a funny way.

2. LEARN THE ART OF ASKING MEANINGFUL QUESTIONS

Many men mix up the difference between a statement and a question, yet the difference is very basic and grasping the options that you can give the girls is a way to improving your relationships. Some men understand the difference for instance "whew it sure is hot, is a statement you are stating a fact and gives someone else little to reply to. How hot is this, aren't you hot? is a question asking for a response.

I have often listened to young men and wonder how they can get it wrong? They fire a series of questions off so fast, it is like being interrogated.

Ask a question, and then give a short answer, that's interesting, and then maybe follow it up with "Why do you feel like that?" Learn to incorporate the questions into smooth conversation.

3. RECOGNIZE AND UTILIZE YOUR STRENGTHS

Everyone has a special skill, whether it is humor, conversational ability, or athletic prowess. Think about your number one strength and incorporate it into your dating regime. What you look like is not of supreme importance.

4. GET HELP

If you are not confidant, and need to get help, then utilize your friends. Choose one that you think is successful, and ask for some tips. Some people find the socialising scene easier than others'. If you are having real trouble try asking a girl who is a friend to go out on a practise date.
Then ask her what went wrong.?

5. BE AWARE OF THE GIRL'S BODY LANGUAGE

Body language is quite complex, but some things are easy. Practise on your friends. You should be able to recognize what sort of a general mood someone is in by the way that they hold themselves. Look at how relaxed people are looking when they laugh, they look as though they have not a care in the world. In contrast when people are holding themselves together, they look tense, and strung up. How many times have you seen a girl out and she is yawning, which is a sure sign she is bored, but on top of that she is giving men the brush off. Learn to read body language, and give yourself a fighting chance of success.

6. BE UNPREDICTABLE

Don't always do what you think women expect. A bunch of flowers is nice but too often is 'old hat' these days. Think of something different to do that will be fun for both of you. This does not need to be expensive, a candle lit dinner is wonderful, but there are other ways of doing something different. Women love dancing, and if you can't
afford to go out dancing play some romantic music at home, and relax.

7. REMEMBER THAT SOCIAL AND DATING SKILLS ARE NOT LEARNT IN A CLASSROOM

Practise your skills regarding interaction with other people. Try not to brag all the time and listen to others. Try and bring out the best in others and make them warm to your personality.

8. UNDERSTAND THAT YOU MUST TAKE RISKS

Find the little things that you think are romantic, and act on them. This is fairly hard for some men, they are taught that real men don't express their feelings, you
will appear weak if you do so. To be self-expressive you must be able to express your feelings. It may all go horribly wrong and you may hurt someone but the more you practise the easier it becomes.

9. COOK HER A MEAL

How special does a woman feel when her guy has gone to the trouble to shop, and prepare food for her. It does not have to be a five course gourmet dinner. Start with something simple like a salad, and even if you can't cook, practise one main course. Women think this is very romantic, and are quite likely to be bowled over by the gesture. Even if it does not taste that great, she will appreciate the thought.

10. BEING RESPONSIVE TO THE NEEDS OF OTHERS IS NOT WEAKNESS

You are not a wimp if you are aware of the times when other people need your support. We have come a long way since Men dragged women off by their hair to a cave. In a complex world girls need more than physical protection, and the provision, of the odd beast to eat, they do have
emotional needs as well.

Get The Girls To Like You

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Step #1- Be a relaxed guy who doesn't worry about outcomes

The last step towards building rapport is to never worry about any outcome around a girl. Your goal around girls is to relax and have fun. This means you never worry about hooking up or dating a girl. Instead you simply act like a cool guy who carries himself with a quiet sense of confidence.

Step #2- Be a confident guy

Confidence is a MAJOR trait which all girls love about guys. So when you're trying to build rapport with a girl, make an effort to display a confident and alpha male personality.

By demonstrating to girls that you're not afraid to take charge of situation and use some initiative, you're demonstrating a basic attraction mechanism. In essence girls are attracted to men who step up to the plate and go for what they want out of life.

Step #3- Be a positive guy around girls

Whenever you're around girls, you must display a positive attitude and level of emotion. In order to be well liked, you need to show an exciting personality which stands out from other guys.

By displaying a positive vibe, you'll find that girls will be magnetically drawn to your personality. In addition, you'll become the fun guy that everyone wants to be around.

Step #4- Be an energetic guy

Girls are attracted to energetic guys who are full of life. So when you're around them, you have to smile and make them feel comfortable.

In order to maximize this trait, you must get rid of ALL negative feelings or emotions which hinder your chances of building rapport. So ditch the bad moods and sullen disposition. Instead try to be an exciting guy who girls want to know more about.

Getting Girls To Like You

2009-01-20T09:08:00.000-08:00

Never do too much for her too early- Another major mistake several guys make out there is that they end up doing too much for the girl too early during the very first conversation. They either end up spending a lot of money or end up telling the girl a lot about themselves. This normally tends to kill attraction therefore learn to keep it short and never reveal anything more than necessary about yourself.

Develop your social skills- Social skills are not only necessary for your profession but are also necessary for your personal life. You see girls often chase men who are great with women in general which basically means men who are more or less great with women anyway and are always high on self esteem and confidence around women. Therefore learn to develop your social skills.

Always treat yourself good- Remember this key factor- Never put yourself down or disrespect yourself around a woman. You see once you do that she realizes that you are the kind of a guy who does not even respect himself therefore she ends up doing the same. You see often girls go for men who have a very high opinion about themselves.