Dating Scene

Who else wants to know how to get women to like them virtually EVERY SINGLE time? It really amazes me how most men view the dating scene. They see it as some abyss that is full of the unknown. Let me tell you something, that view says a lot about the men who hold it. It says they are beta males. In other words, these are the sub-dominant species in our society. Whenever there is an alpha man in the proximity, these guys just roll over belly up.

Sounds pathetic, does it not? Well, it is. And this is EXACTLY what YOU are if you view the dating scene as something to be afraid of.

If you really want to get women to like you - you need own yourself and your surroundings. Instead of seeing dating as something scary and totally out of your control, see it as totally IN your control. Do you see how this change of mindset can affect your confidence levels with women?

The fact of the matter, no matter how "independent" the woman, is that women love to be whisked away into a man's world. Not just any man's world, but one who is dominant and able to take her on a wild, fun experience.

So, here is the big secret to success with women...

Stop being so afraid of everything! A couple thousand years ago and your butt would have been eaten by a sabre-toothed tiger if you showed this weak mindset for a split second!

Just take pride in yourself and exert control over your surroundings. Stop reacting, and start creating.

The women will follow. I promise you that.

Get a Girl To Like You

First of all when you see a girl you like, be looking as good as you can. That doesn't mean that you're always dressed in your finest wear, it means that whatever you're wearing you're clean and you don't smell. If you don't have this basic right, then really you're never going to get past wondering how to get a girls number.

Your next move when you see a girl you like, don't wait too long to approach her. Waiting to build up courage only results in loss of courage! The longer you stand there psyching yourself up, the easier it is for negative thoughts to creep into your mind until your courage fails you or another guys gets in and asks for her number.

So, walk over with a warm smile on your face. Introduce yourself and ask her something really casual - if you've both just stepped out of a film, ask her what she thought of the film. If you're in a bar, ask her if you can get her a drink? You get the idea.

The sooner you have her laughing, the easier you will both feel - yes she's nervous too! Now your next move when wondering how to get a girls number, is to find the right moment to ask her. Ask her when you feel she's really relaxed, when she's just stopped laughing at something funny you've said and make sure she understands that you're not just out for what you can get and that you're really interested in her as a person.

Tips To Get Girls

The first thing you need to realize is that the things women find attractive about men, are NOT the same things that men find attractive about women. Men, as you know, are very 'visual' beings - it's usually how a girl looks that sets our pulses racing (amongst other things...)

Women, on the other hand, find men attractive because of their personalities. How many surveys have you seen where women place 'sense of humour' as their number one priority when finding a mate? Quite a few I'd bet. A woman's ideal man is an alpha male that is confident and can take the lead, both in life and with her.

"So how do I get her to like me?" you say, "I'm no alpha male." Well, maybe not yet, but you can learn. Like all the good things in life worth learning, it will take effort and time on your part but, I guarantee, it will definitely be worth it.

Here's a tip if you want a girl to like you - Nonchalance.

You need to display non-attachment to whether the girl likes you or not. Great if she does like you, but if not, there are tons of other fish in the sea. Sure, you may not actually feel like that, but that is the 'act' you have got to convincingly sell. You must place a high value on yourself and never come from a position of neediness.

Make friends and hang out with as many women as you can to help eliminate neediness and also date as many women as you can, instead of restricting yourself to that "one special girl". It's a known fact that when a girl sees that other women are attracted to a guy then she will also feel attraction. In psychological circles this is known as the 'social proof' effect. It happens in both men and women, but it's much more powerful in the female of the species.

Of course, this is only one tip on how you get a girl to like you, but it is a very useful one to understand and will go a long way to helping you get that all important first date with the girl you want.

How To Get A Girl Interested

Tip # 1 - Notice the finer details. In order to keep a girl interested in you, keep noticing the finer details. This could be anything from her likes or dislikes to the type of restaurants or movies she prefers. This would be very helpful in the next meeting since you could get her favorite chocolate or book a table at her favorite restaurant. Girls love it when guys notice, listen, and act, period. By acting on her likes, you will be able to prove that you care for her and this could literally keep her interested in you.

Tip # 2 - Dress to impress. Do not dress shabbily or even ordinarily if you want to create a lasting first impression. Dig through your closet and get your smartest clothes out. Add on a smart watch, chain or any other accessory that spells style boldly. Do not bling like a neon signboard but instead keep it classy. A fresh haircut and the right perfume or a sports deodorant should keep her sniffing for more.

Tip # 3 - If you do not have a hummer, use humor. While an entry in a hummer would have created a highly impressive impression, most people might not have the money to buy one. If that is your case then shift to using humor to get her laughing. This will keep her interest centered on you and you can use your sense of humor to quickly make her comfortable and proceed from there. Anyway, if wishes were horses, you could well be gifted with a hummer and tons of humor.

Getting The Girl

Display your chivalrous side-

If you're in high school or college, make sure that she always finds you waiting round the corner for her. Carry her books while you walk along. And if you're working make it a point to pick her up after work. Take her out for an ice-cream or a surprise dinner before dropping her home. But also make sure to formally invite her out sometimes. Do complement her about her dress and the colors that suit her. You'll find her wearing the very colors you appreciated her in.

Play it safe-

Do not push things too hard or the opportunity will slip away. Playing it safe is the surer way to winning her. Get noticed by the girl you crave. Hang around within reach. Behave with propriety and respect. Be jovial and humorous and not boisterous or rowdy. Greet girls with respect, especially your dream girl. Never poke fun at other girls in her presence else she'll easily suspect it could be her some other time. This 'best behavior' attitude will win her heart and you'll soon find her taking an interest in you.

Display the gentleman in you-

Every girl would like to be leaning on the arm of a perfect gentleman whom she can trust. Just be sure not to be callous and deceive her. Be on your best behavior at all times. That will find her seeking your company more frequently. Show interest in the things she likes and also tell her about yourself. Discuss sensible topics, while not appearing boring and serious. Display a certain amount of flirtation while you pay sufficient attention too. She'll enjoy whatever time she spends with you.

Get Girlfriend

Do not show a lot of interest-

Well this might sound funny but guys, this works a great deal. So plan it this way, show you do not have that much interest in her. She would act pricey if you simply follow her and show her that you need her badly. Usually girls are scared and irritated if you stalk them, ruining your chances of getting her to be interested in you. This will spark general interest and she will like you instantly.

Be confident of taking decisions-

Women do not prefer such guys who generally look for their consent on every matter. From the beginning you have to prove that you are capable of taking decisions and very strong willed. If they see that you are trying hard to make an impression then you will be written off. So it's important that you show your worth by displaying your inner strength. Surprise the woman and do not make it drab by waiting for her approval in silly matters.

Stay equally cool with her friends-

If you like her and want her to like you, make sure that she feels the urgency. So give equal attention to her friends, this will make her feel that she is just another girl over there. When you do this, her ego will be hurt and then she will try getting more attention from you. Yes, now you see how easily she will like you in seconds.

Get Girls

We've all had that special woman in our lives. You know... the one with the sweet personality, the really nice hair and a perfect face. She dates the more "adept" guys... but how can you get her to like you?

While men are primarily attracted to women based on their looks, a woman finds a man attractive because of his personality. A ideal man is an alpha male who's confident in himself and not afraid to take the lead and get what he wants out of life.

Ironically, what this means then is that the best way for a girl to like you is when she feels like she has EARNED you.

That's because to get a girl to like you, you should come from a mindset of high value. Never come from a position of neediness.

So the best attitudes to have towards any one particular woman are:

1. Nonchalance.

2. Non-attachment to whether she likes you or not. (By that I mean, if she likes you that's awesome, but if not, there are tons of other chicks out there who are equally as great as she is.)

The bottom line is that a woman should never be a challenge for you. Instead you should be a challenge for her.

In addition to placing a high value on yourself, you can also eliminate neediness by building up your social network. Make friends with as many women as you can. (Women are easy to make friends with.)

Also date as many women as you can... don't restrict yourself only to dating "that one special girl."

You see, the last thing you ever want to have going through your mind when you're around that special woman is, "God, I MUST have this girl! She's irreplaceable!" Having an abundance of women in your life will solve that problem.

Also, whenever a woman sees that other chicks are attracted to a guy, she too feels attraction. Psychologically, this is known as the "social proof" phenomenon... and it's much more powerful in women than men.

Ever noticed how your female friends drool over the guy at the corner of the bar who's got four babes at his table? That's social proof in action.

By the way, it's fine to think a girl is beautiful and to feel something strong for her.

Here's the key though... you must always remind yourself that there are LOTS of other women out there who are just as wonderful as that girl you really like.

If you start thinking that any girl is one of a kind, then that gives her power over you, and, ironically, makes her lose attraction to you.

So, you're free to think that a woman's amazing. Just remember that lots of other girls are amazing too. That way you won't become needy.

So remember, place a high value on yourself, make her earn your attention, and hang out with as many women as possible... those are the three secrets for how to get a girl to like you.